Life, continued

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We’re in the middle of a renovation this week, an improvement, a making new. In two days the lovely men we hired have completely removed the old bathroom, tiles and all, and begun to mend it again, this time with things we have chosen. I have been amazed at lots of things these last two days: the speed of their work, their cheeriness, their faith that everything can be done and no problem is insurmountable, their willingness to do the job exactly the way we want it, the fact that something as seemingly solid as a bathroom can be removed and replaced just like that.

I’m showering at the gym, the cats are being locked safely away in bedrooms for the day, the dishwasher is out of action since it turns out the stopcock is behind it, it’s impossible to do any washing, Isaac’s having to work from home on the end of my craft table, there’s a bath in my living room, and I feel slightly embarrassed by my desire to listen to the Archers at 2pm.

Oh, I thought this morning, I wish it would get back to normal.

And then I realised what a silly wish that was, because this is normal. Making a home nicer is so normal. And being jolted out of your routine is normal, or should be, because it forces you to look up, see where you are, how far you’ve come. Renovation and change is a part of life, or we stagnate, and I think people who are drawn to making things themselves understand that instinctively, even if it might not be a conscious thought. Every doorstop, apron, bag, coaster, and garment we make is a way of making life different, no matter how small. And the joy of doing that hardly needs to be spelled out, or why are there so many of us doing it?

So as much as I enjoy the process of making something on my sewing machine, I’m going to enjoy the process of making my house better. Here endeth the lesson.

You couldn't let it lie…

The Happy HookerBut it’s not entirely my fault. My lovely friend, who made me the crocheted scarf also made me a present of a bamboo crochet hook. I also picked up a little ball of wool in Purl Soho when I was there. And when I was suddenly overwhelmed with the urge to purchase a book (not an unusual occurrence I have to admit) I figured I might as well go for it. Which is how Stitch ‘n Bitch Crochet: The Happy Hooker landed on my doorstep this morning. Of course now I think it’s a silly idea and it might take me a while to combine book, hook and wool, but at least I have the option.

I also have a hallway full of tiles, which brings home the reality of having no bathroom next week, not to mention the need to purchase things like a bathscreen and a cabinet with some urgency. And I thought I had everything under control…

Also, if you did add my site to bloglines or your reader of choice, please try adding it again. I’ve had some issues with it updating so the address is slightly different now. If that doesn’t work, well, it’s back to the internet for me.

Clearance

Today has been mostly about this. Before I can apply the elephant’s breath I have to move furniture, and before I can do that, as anyone who has ever moved house with me knows, I have to move the books. I have a lot of books. This pile isn’t the sum of the books that were in our bedroom – this is about half. Some ended up in Isaac’s little room, some in a cupboard that I miraculously found had some room, and some even found their way into a pile for the charity shop.

This is almost unknown for me.

Books come in, but they very rarely go out.

But when I was unpacking the double packed shelves I was having two reactions:

  1. oh! This book! I’ve had this copy for [x] years. I remember reading this when I was in [insert appropriate house]…and cue flood of memories and a desire to flick through the pages
  2. ‘oh yeah, I read that.’ Tosses book aside.

So I figured that I could thin the shelves and take the ‘yeah I read that’s to the charity shop and be no worse off, but it does feel very strange. I suppose that changing any habitual behaviour is the same, and for me, clinging onto books regardless of my feelings for them has become just that – a habit. The trouble with this particular habit is that the lack of shelf space is stopping me from bringing in new books, ones that I think are more for the me I am now. (Which is not the same as saying that I’m discarding all of the old me, just that I know when I look through my shelves which parts I have assimilated, and which parts simply skimmed the surface for a while.) And if I can’t broaden my bookshelves then I feel as if I’m simply marking time, trapped in a room of old obsessions.

The best solution would be a big house with several rooms that can be given over to library shelves, but since that’s not in the offing I’ll weed and cull instead. Just don’t expect me to be entirely happy about it.

Elephant's Breath

No more progress on the bag today as it’s been all post holiday paperwork, filing, VAT and tax returns. Gosh – imagine what it will be like next year when I have to submit my own return as well?

I did take a small break to do something nice and cheering and ordered paint for our bedroom, which is called, yes, you’ve guessed it, Elephant’s Breath. I love Farrow & Ball colour names, and their descriptions are just lovely. Sadly I’ve lost my colour card but I could spend hours looking at it.

Have you picked a favourite colour name yet?

Things you don't want to hear guests say #1

‘Gosh, your toilet really is sinking into the floor, isn’t it?’

And do you know, it is. I decided this week to use my flurry of go-getty new year-ness to finally do something about our hideous bathroom. After all, it’s been three years since we moved in and we’ve hated the room for all of that time.

Perhaps the room has felt that hate and decided to get its own back, because it’s leaking. The bathscreen, which periodically falls off into the bath, sometimes onto bathing occupants (ie me) has decided that it no longer wants to keep the water inside the bath when we shower, so the floor is littered with old towels.

But we suspect worse. The floor moves. The floor tiles are all cracked and no longer level. But the previous muppet encased so much of the pipework and cistern in botched up wooden contraptions covered in tiles, that we can’t actually see what else might be leaking.

So I got a man in to quote for it. I’ve also been to the bathroom shop down the road and I’ve chosen a bath, tiles and fancy pants taps. We know what kind of light fitting we want and that we want a slate floor. We need to find a basin, and a towel heater, and a door, and a cupboard, and a toilet roll holder. There are probably other things too.

On the plus side this flurry of activity leaves me with nothing pressing to do this weekend except whatever I feel like doing although so far that’s been ‘sleeping late’. I’m sure I’ll think of something else.